Life Is About Letting Go Past And Moving Forward

Life never goes backward, it can only move forward. We might stop for a while to figure out past incidents, but we must not become obsessed with them. There may have been some bittersweet situations in your earlier relationships, career, life, or family, but you should learn from them and realize that life is about stepping forward. You may have hard feelings or suffered in past, but the more important thing is to forgive others, as well as yourself, for whatever mistakes you or others made. So, you should make peace with your mistake and move on. This blog will certainly inspire you to look ahead and work for a brighter future.

1. UNDERSTAND HOW TO DEAL WITH BAD SITUATIONS:

Learn how to handle bad situations and problems in life, never complain about life; life never goes backward, it can only move forward. The major difference between successful people and unsuccessful is that unsuccessful people always complain whereas successful accept and move on. Great people do extraordinary things for people and society with dedication, hardworking and perseverance. Do everything selflessly and with the aim to uplift people around you and also develop society.


2. YOUR PAST IS NOT YOUR DESTINY:

Never be sad about your past if something bad happened to you. As you know that you can not change your past because it’s gone.However, you may shape your future by giving your all in the present. Just think about the goals and promises that you made earlier. You should concentrate on things that you can fulfill with your strengths and talents.


The present is the result of the past; what you have done in the past is the result that you are getting now. You can’t change your past, but you can change your future if you focus on your present and take the necessary steps which can build your future.


3. ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY AND TAKE CHARGE:

In life, many problems will come-they may be personal, professional, familial, financial, etc., and they may be small or big, and we don’t know when they will come, but we should make ourselves alert and ready to overcome them and resolve them. Try to resolve your problems by yourself and take less supports from others. If you think you can do it, just do it and there is no need to take supports from others. People take responsibility when they love their Works and are committed to doing their best. If you fail to resolve your problems quickly, then you can take your time to do the needful to get the solutions and never be impatient while finding the ways; after all, if you don’t get any solutions after trying many times, you can find alternative ways to reach your destiny.

4. PROBLEMS CAN’T OVERTAKE THE POWERS WITHIN YOU:

Challenges can’t overtake the powers within you; every failure helps you to prepare for the next successes. If you’ve fears of failures and rejections, you can’t sustain in the path of success, you can’t remove these things from the process of success, but you can overcome them. You’ve to overcome the difficulties to reach your goals. Find the solutions to your problems or find alternative ways to reach your goal -anyhow you’ve to move on, never stop your motion by thinking about the setbacks or problems.

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5. NEVER ASK FOR SUPPORTS FROM OTHERS IF YOU CAN DO

What do you want from your life, ask yourself? And nobody can give you clarity in this regard except you. You are the best person to reply to and find the right answers for every question that you would like to ask. You can take some partial support from others, you have to take the final decision. You are the best decision-maker for your life, whether you want to build your life or you want to destroy your life-the decisions are always in your hand.

6. TAKE BETTER DECISIONS FOR EVERYTHING :

Nobody can take your whole life decisions except you. Many situations come to the life from time to time, we find many different people from time to time and we meet many opportunities from time to time; but, what we accept and what we reject, can only be decided by the person himself. We don’t accept all the opportunities, we don’t accept all the people and we don’t love the situations that create problems.

“Better decisions motivate you to do the right actions and you do everything keeping the results in mind.”

People do miracles in life because they think miracle by their good decisions and do their works with the same perceptions; you create your world with the power of your thoughts, decisions, and beliefs. If you don’t think miracles, how can you do miracles? Every possibility begins in the mind, and then we do the things in the real life. While taking any decisions, think of their consequence; stop going ahead if it is bad and harm others.

7. TAKE CONTROL OF YOUR MIND:

“Everyone thinks of changing the world, but no one thinks of changing himself.”

Negative thoughts are highly destructive to the mind; you can’t imagine how powerful the negative thoughts are, they work in negative ways to weaken your willpower. Negative thoughts are nothing but powerful viruses in your mind computer; they can destroy the hard disk of your mind computer. The anti-virus in your mind’s computer is creating more positive thoughts and positive images mind to weaken the effectiveness of negative thoughts so that you can take control of your mind.

Also read: https://siddheswarjana.com/control-your-anger/

8. GOD HAS HIS WAYS TO TAKE PART IN YOUR LIFE

Life is to learn good things and then practice them to improve your
excellence. Many times, God sends you difficulties in the path of your lite to make you stronger, but it matters how you accept
this factor. Difficulties create obstacles, fears, uneasiness, discomfort, and it makes your process delayed, but it can never block your roadways. Through adversities and difficulties, you find new opportunities to build a better future. Those people who have fears of difficulties, adversities, and failures, never do big works and never achieve big things in life.

God loves you and He will give you the things in His ways to fulfill your dreams, and we don’t know what the exact ways are and what they are, you might meet challenges or difficulties because these
challenges or problems may open the doors to your prosperity and success. If you’re success-conscious, these challenges can’t break you, they might delay your works, but you’ll get the ways that you search for, and you may find your destiny in some steps ahead.

#Quote

Anyone can give up; that is the easiest thing to do. But to hold it together when everyone would expect you to fall apart; now that is true strength.

Chris Bradford

Not Getting What We Want

“I asked God for strength, that I might achieve.
I was made weak, that I might learn humbly to obey…

I asked for all things, that I might enjoy life.
I was given life, that I might enjoy all things…” – Anonymous

8 Most Beautiful Things in Life That Make Me Feel Awesome

The most beautiful things in life are not things. They’re people and places and memories and pictures. They’re feelings and moments and smiles and laughter.

Anonymous

As I look around and think about “life,” I feel obliged to share with you some of the most beautiful things I have noticed. I’ll show you the most beautiful things in life are free so you don’t make the mistake of putting trivial things for the most important.

So, Here Are Some Most Beautiful Things in Life to Adore though There Are a Lot More :

#1 Being in Love :

Being in love is the best feeling in life. It includes wishing for your partner’s happiness, admiring the person for who he or she is, and feeling inspired to improve yourself. It’s more than just a physical attraction between you when you’re in love. It’s a feeling of joy at the prospect of two separate and free people opting to spend time together. When you’re in love, you’re motivated to be sympathetic, kind, and loving to the person you care about and also others. I feel blessed to have had such an experience in my life.

#2 Tears of joy! :

Yes, ‘happy tears’ are the most amazing thing in life.

It’s the apex of joy. It offers joy to those who see it.

Summer raindrops penetrated by sunbeams are like tears of joy.
Joyful tears are made up of 1% water and 99 percent happiness.
It’s great to witness it on your close one.
My mother poured happy tears after I had first earned 500 hundred rupees by giving tuition to my students, and it was the finest day of my life. Then I found that ‘Tears of Joy’ are the most amazing thing in life. I hope you all get it at some point in your lives.

#3 Music :

Music can lift a person’s moods, facilitate them, or soothe and rest them. It also helps us to feel virtual, if not all, of the emotions we experience throughout our life.

Sometimes I feel that music is the medicine for all the problems.
My existence would be empty without music and harmonies. When I’m having a bad day, I listen to various songs that help me to calm, de-stress and also motivate me. Music is love.

Some of my favorite songs :

1. Tujhse Naraz Nahin Zindagi Song by Anup Ghoshal
2. Coffee Houser Sei Addata Aaj Aar Nei Song by Manna Dey
3. Tolo Chinno Bina Song by Asha Bhosle
4. Hamen Tumse Pyar Kitna
Song by Kishore Kumar
5. Still I want to be here from 13 Reason Why
The list goes on…….

#4 Sunset :

Watching the sunset and enjoying its tranquility is another most lovely thing in life. The sky with all of its charming qualities is my favorite thing in the world, and if I could spend my entire day watching the way it changes in a million different ways, I wouldn’t hesitate to.

While sunsets mark the end of the day, they’ve also come to symbolize peace, harmony, and the promise of fresh beginnings. Sunsets serve as a wonderful reminder to take time to relax and refresh our hearts and brains at the end of each day.

#5 Family :

Without family our life is meaningless. The word “family” itself is so significant that it implies a sense of security in having people around you with whom you can always rely on, with whom you can always discuss your worries, with whom you can always play, and with whom you can always cheer your mood.

To me, family is equivalent to love. Someone who is always there for me, at both good and bad moments, throughout my life. Encouragement, comfort, guidance, values, morals, faith, understanding, hope, and many other things come to me when I think of family. These things are highly crucial to me because they make me happy on the inside, regardless of what is going on in my life outside of them.

#6 Friendships :

Having nice friends is beneficial to your well-being. Friends can assist you in both celebrating good moments and giving support during difficult times. Friendship minimizes loneliness and allows you to provide much-needed companionship. Additionally, friends can:

  • Boost your sense of objective of your life and belonging.
  • Motivate you to change or ignore toxic lifestyle and addictions such as excessive drinking and inertness, etc.

#7 Blue Sky :

My next favorite thing in the world is the sky, blue sky, with all of its fascinating facets, I wouldn’t hesitate to spend an entire day watching it transform in a thousand multiple ways. Blue skies are pleasing to the eye and comforting to the soul, and they add to the universe’s total beauty. These blue skies not only demonstrate the actual beauty of pure blue skies while also inspire and instill a sense of hope.

#8 Book :

Reading books can expand your thoughts and take you to places – on earth and in space. It can increase your visualisation ability. If you are reader, you do not need any friend – book becomes your best friend. It stops you from getting bored. It helps you understand world better.

But the beautiful thing about reading books is that you can sleep soundly at night…I love going to sleep while reading a book and I generally have a very sound sleep. No tossing and turning in the bed waiting for sleep to takeover !!!
In the words of George Martin, “A reader lives a thousand lives before he dies, the man who never reads lives only one”

Book which you must read atleast once :

1. Think Like a Monk by Jay Shetty
2. You Can Win by Shiv Khera
3. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
The list goes on…..

What are the most beautiful things in life in your opinion? Comment below.

Thank you.

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