Self-discipline Is the Key to Achieve Your Goal: How to Be Master on It?


Self-discipline is the master key to every success, and the lack of self-discipline is the major cause of failures, frustrations, underachievement, and unhappiness in life. It is nothing but self-control in mind, that is, how to control your mind and how to create discipline in mind -it’s the action followed by good thoughts and a positive state of mind.

You can keep your success energetic and escalating for the long-term if you’re disciplined and determined under all circumstances and situations. People, situations, and circumstances mightn’t favor you at some time but always find new ways to go ahead and achieve your goals.

While driving the vehicles on the roads, we obey traffic rules and regulations, for these reasons, we make ourselves safe and many others also; here we maintain discipline on the road. Without discipline, we can’t do any work properly because of confusion, disbelief, looking for shortcuts, excuses, complaining and blaming attitudes, and lots of negative factors that appear through different thoughts in mind.

Hence, self-discipline is the key.


An American Philosopher and Psychologist William James once said,

“The greatest discovery of my generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitudes of mind.”

Control your mind; never let your mind control you. Don’t accept the thoughts which guide you in the wrong directions. Controlling the mind is very difficult, but it is possible when you keep on doing things repetitively until you make a habit. We see in many people’s lives that changing habits are much more difficult, and this can be possible when a person has strong desires to achieve something-a strong determination is essential to accept new ideas.

A disciplined mindset is always understandable and influenced by its purposes; it can understand many things like situations, people, and environments.

If you fail to control your mind, you’ll fail to control your life. Our mind carries thousands of thoughts, good or bad, positive or negative, and those thoughts which are connected with our emotions become our predominant thoughts, and they importantly manage our lives in the same directions as they are. When we change our thoughts, we change the direction of our lives. Never obey your mind if it guides you in the wrong direction.

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Control your mind with positive thoughts; never let your mind control you through negative thoughts. You can control your mind if you know the direction of your life through clear visions, fixed goals, and consistent actions. If you don’t fix up any specific goal in your mind, you do your actions aimlessly, and you get results accordingly.


Without clear visions and goals, people don’t take pains and they don’t like to go through certain challenges to achieve their goals even though their goals are very essential and primary to their lives as they anticipate.

Your destination may be far away from you, but if it is clear and you make it your goal, then it’s easy to travel the long distance overcoming lots of setbacks or difficulties on the way. You may take a long time to reach your goal, but you must have positive aspirations for your future achievements. Always anticipate positive outcomes in the future and do the best in the present day.

Confusion, disbelief, sadness, depression, and hopelessness come into mind if you don’t have clear visions and goals, and you don’t know what you are going to do in life.

Never do the things that come into your mind erratically, but do the things that are right and good to your life. For example: when a student sets his goal for his exams to score good marks for a healthy career ahead, and his mind says to watch some program or movie on television for 2-4 hours a day and he obeys his mind and withdraws focus from his goal and concentrate his mind on other things like watching TV, gossiping with friends, playing/watching games and visiting frequently to his relatives and friends home for casual gatherings, and many more activities that aren’t part of his goal, and even these activities don’t inspire the person towards his goals.

What will happen then? The student is spending time here and there unproductively without managing time and that is the major cause of failures or delaying the process of achievements. Your future is always in your hand; now decide, do you want to create it or break it. Now you can make either a good decision or a bad one, it depends on your future aspirations and how you want to see your life ahead.


Henry Emerson Fosdick once said,

“No steam or gas drives anything until it is confined. No life ever grows great until it is focused, dedicated, disciplined.”

Self-discipline is an important factor in the process of success; without which you can’t build a grand success and also you may not hold your present success with growth and advancements for a long time. This is nothing but a discipline in mind and you do the right things at right time.

If you’re disciplined, your thinking has clarity and purity on certain things, and you are convinced.

Discipline manages your mind well to deliver the right commands of thoughts into actions; we do the right things when we get positive commands from our minds to lead a life as we want. Those people who succeed to manage their minds and stay in harmony are the true winners of their life, and they achieve more successes in their lifetime.


What is Self-control, how to control your mind and direct it in the right direction in life? Mind says many things to do, either positives or negatives, but what do you decide to do? Never obey your mind if it guides into the wrong directions; only obey your mind when it guides into the right directions.

Don’t let your mind control you. You should always take control of your mind in the manner you take care of a newborn baby. Always you’ll have careful attention to the baby, and you observe every activity that the baby does. Like your mind is, take care of your mind with the intention that how better results you want from your mind. Your actions follow your predominant thoughts, and all thoughts reside within the mind, and you are the creator of your thoughts.

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If you’re thinking about long-term goals and working on them, and the purposes of the results of your goals are helpful towards building a healthy society, you attain peace of mind and inner joy.

Positive thoughts are strong and directional; they help you to grow and prosper, and can survive in your mind for the long term to create a meaningful life; these kinds of thoughts create the same kinds of thought empire in your mind. If you want to win in life, adopt more positive thoughts and disregard all negative thoughts in any way. A strong and disciplined mind holds more positive thoughts and tries to cultivate more of the same thoughts to strengthen their empire.

Your Habits Determine Your Future : How You Can Build Successful Habits

What is a habit? 

It is when we do certain activities repeatedly over some time and then they become automatic and easy to do afterward. If you want to give up your old habits and create some new habits, first of all, give up your old habits and replace them with new habits. Bad habits are always bad for your present and future life and they may have negative influences on others in your surroundings. Hence, stay away from bad habits and develop good habits.

“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit.” -Aristotle


An American inspirational author and Founder of SUCCESS Magazine,

Orison Swett Marden once said:

“The beginning of a habit is like an invisible thread, but every time we repeat the act we strengthen the strand, add to it another filament until it becomes a great cable and binds us irrevocably, thought and act.”

Good habits are your best friends, while bad habits are your worst enemies; it’s up to you what you opt for in your life. You can’t stay a long time comfortably with your bad habits Because many bad habits unknowingly harm your life in the long term that mightn’t be found in today’s life.

Giving up old habits is sometimes more difficult, most people say, they can’t give up their old habits, because these are possible; are all difficult and not possible, but they didn’t think that this was possible, because they didn’t try to give up the old ones. If you don’t change your habits, you can’t change your daily living to work with a new set of goals. It needs strong decisions and persistent actions to form new habits.

Now start doing your new activities for the next 30 days, and give up your old habits convincingly that these habits are no longer active with me. My old habits are not part of my goal plans, and I must start doing the things that must help me to prosper and achieve my goals. When you do new activities daily with determination, they become auto habits and there is no need to remember them again because they have been conceived in your subconscious mind. Starting a journey with new habits is difficult, but these good habits must help you to achieve many objectives in life.

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An American author in the area of the new thought movement Napoleon

Hill once said:

“Until you have formed the habit of looking for the good instead of the bad there is in others, you will be neither successful nor happy.”

Your life follows your predominant thoughts, and predominant thoughts can’t be built up in one day, they take several days or longer periods to grow and create their empires in your thought process when you do certain things repetitively over some time.

If you decide to become successful in life, and want to achieve many things, or want to help many people in the society; first, change your thoughts, change your attitudes, change your habits, change your spoken words and change the ways of your actions.

When you do certain activities repetitively over a period they become your habits and your predominant thought will be the same and your life follows them. When you change your actions, you also change your habits afterward and you create the same kind of mindset to proceed further.


No habit is permanent, you can change your present habits to new and good habits once you take strong decisions to achieve your new goals, and these goals must be good to you and others as well.

Read hundreds of books on success and achievements; self-help, personal improvements, motivation and inspiration, and success; anyhow you need to change your state of mind and develop a success

mindset. Until you change your state of mind to success consciousness, you can’t work for success wholeheartedly. To grow faster, you need to learn many things from other successful people-be teachable; you can read biographies of successful people. From their life, you can understand many things.

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Stephen R. Covey, an American educator, author, businessman, and keynote speaker wrote:

“You are not your habits. You can replace old patterns of self-defeating behavior with new patterns, new habits of effectiveness, happiness, and trust-based relationships. With genuine caring, I encourage you to open the gate of change and growth.”

You can’t pick the right things on the outside if you don’t have the same thoughts in your mind. Developing a new habit may not be possible in a short period, it takes time and varies from person to person. It is possible when you repeatedly do the things over some time. You can change your present habits into meaningful directions when you start doing things with clear goals. When you stay away from your comfort zone, you build a Winning habit for the upcoming success.

You can only build your future when you change your habits; your repeated actions shape your habits, and your repeated habits decide your character, and when you reach your destiny with the same strengths as you build yourself.

Sometimes bad circumstances and negative people create some situations on your path to disturb your state of mind on the way to success. In these situations, don’t make a swift decision to quit your achievement process even though it is painful and difficult.

Like creating dreams, you must know how to protect your dreams from negative people and circumstances.

Do four steps daily to strengthen your dreams:

Prepare a list of your dreams-what exactly what you want in life.

Write your dreams and goals daily in your dream book with deadlines, and action plans:


a) Write your dreams in your dream book

Write your dreams in your dream book and write them in the present tense because your subconscious mind only understands in the present tense, it doesn’t understand the past or future. Feel positive about your dreams and visualize that you are now living with your dreams. Why do you need this confirmation before attainment, because you’ll need lots of effort to make your dreams come true, and for this reason, you must have felt an achievable success before it’s achieved? Who will work for your success, the answer is, nobody but only you? Many people might support you, but you are the leading role player in your success journey.

b) Put a Deadline on your Dream

Dream plus deadline becomes your goal, eIse your dream is only a wishful thought and it has no existence and power. Put your goals on paper and make plans to achieve them. Until you set your goals, you can’t manage your time in the right ways. Your success is nothing but your achievable goals.

c) Find the Reasons Why do you want to achieve your Dreams; Why?

Find the emotional reasons for your dreams, and then it would be easy to do the things to get it done. Many difficulties, setbacks, and challenges might come your way, but you can overcome them if you have strong reasons for your dreams. You don’t care what is happening on the outside because of emotional reasons, and your focus goes to concentrate on your work.

A weak desire can’t make you successful: you need a strong burning desire to get success in life. Most people fail in life because of weak desires, weak faith, weak decisions, and weak action plans, they don’t take strong decisions and don’t set goals because they don’t have strong reasons to achieve anything. Find the strong reasons why you want to achieve a big success in life. If the reason is clear and strong, that means, why is clear and strong: then how is it easy, that means, you can find the ways how to do it?

In the winter, early morning, when somebody goes outside for a morning walk, he may feel uncomfortable because of intense fog, cold, and moisture, but these outside effects can’t affect the person mentally if the person has the burning desire of doing the exercises for maintaining a healthy body. People find many excuses when they don’t have burning desires. You need a strong desire to overcome many difficulties and setbacks, and the people with clear visions grow much bigger and faster than the people with no clear visions.

d) Then How? Action Plans

Organize the list of your goals into plans and take immediate action on your plans. Write the action plans in 5-10 lines that motivate you to move on – write the detailed plans needed in the process. What you should do so that you can achieve your goals: When you get new ideas and knowledge upon a time from other or different sources, you can then update or modify your goal plans to new ones so that you can become more productive with these new ideas.


An American radio personality, reputed speaker, and author, Earl

Nightingale once said:

“All you need is a plan, the road map, and the courage to press on to your destination.”

Always update or modify your goal plans to make your work more efficient and productive. If you don’t update or modify your goal plans periodically, that means, you aren’t single-mindedly working for your goals, and the results you’ll draw upon a time with the old plans mightn’t be very attractive towards excellent performances. Always follow the changes and be the change to perform outstandingly. You shouldn’t be the same person now with the same qualities as before.

Good habits are like depositing money in your savings account and you want to grow and prosper in the future, while bad habits are like repeatedly withdrawing money from your existing bank balance, this mindset doesn’t connect you to a secured life ahead.

Always change yourself with the needful qualities and find yourself as a new you every time ahead. If you always focus on your main activities and improve yourself over time, you are the true winner of your life.

Don’t Have To Overthink – A Short Reminder to Self

the 23-year-old me

This is I, your permanent life partner till the end of the breath. I know you are working on improving yourself. You are trying your best to uplift yourself from where you are now. Sometimes the situation or the people don’t act according to you. As a result, it strucks you there and you just waste your time. What is wrong with you is that you are not focussing on your goal sincerely. You should know that why you are here. Just remember that(your goal) and keep flourishing. Everything is temporary here. Don’t attach yourself too much to things. So, keep patience and try to nurture yourself. Always remember your goals. Believe in yourself.

I Love You

Your Inner-Self

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